This is the absolute truth. This morning I poured myself a glass of water and started writing a post that will have to wait for another day. I’d set the kettle and heard it starting to boil as I was writing, so I took my glass that had been sitting there and walked into the kitchen. As I stood in front of the kitchen sink waiting for the kettle to whistle I took a swig of water and felt a clump of something on my tongue. I spit out the water onto a plate in the sink and there was a spider, equally stunned by how its day had started. I laughed (what else can you do?) and carried the plate outside and brushed the spider off into the holly bush. After taking stock of my tongue, I rinsed out the glass and poured myself another one. I’m fairly sure that the day can only get better from here, and I’m guessing the spider feels the same. You never know what the new day will bring you.
Yesterday I tackled yet another project that’s been nagging at me; a river stone bed that had accumulated years of dirt and bird seed and all manner of tree debris. I spent several hours pulling out every stone, cleaning out the bed and putting the stone back in (If this seems like the perfect way to spend a Saturday, you must be a gardener too). It’s a meditative process, and I managed to transform the bed from an eyesore to something beautiful that nobody else will ever notice but me. And it seems that this river stone bed was the perfect place for giving birth to the next generation of spiders, as I disturbed 4 – 5 spider moms with white egg sacks. In each case I tried to sweep the spider gently into a dust pan and relocate it to another part of the yard. That was supposed to be my good spider karma for the weekend, and I felt I’d done my part for humanity’s ongoing tenuous relationship with them. And then I drank their cousin.
After this enlightening moment I decided to look into what species of spider I almost consumed. It was your typical wolf spider, which are hunters who don’t spin webs (I feel I might have noticed a web before drinking the spider). Living next to the woods you see a lot of spiders. I don’t believe the other family members are as unconcerned about that as I am. But then again I’m at a point in my life where I don’t worry about such trivial things as spiders on my tongue. You’ve got to roll with whatever life throws at you. I don’t ever expect to experience such an epic moment again, but you never know. I’ll make a point of checking my glass before drinking next time around. The entire event reminded me of the fable about a ham and egg breakfast. Sure, the chicken is involved but the pig is invested. It seems I was the chicken this morning and the spider the pig. A near-miss breakfast and a moment to remember. So how’s your day going?